ADVICE FOR WOMAN

Romantic Feeling !

Romance, the eternal subject for most of the poets. Romance, the life giving force. Romance, that changes perceptions and romance makes a dull night a night of poetic thoughts. Romance turns an ordinary flower into a lover's gift to be preserved forever. Romance produces letters that are saved for generations. Romance makes everything look happy and cheerful.

Romantic feelings change perception. One who had never thought of reading a poetry, begins writing one. That is romance. One who is in romantic love, will have no complaints with the world. Even if the traffic does not move for hours, the romantic lover excuses everyone. That is romance.

Romance changes the way we look at the world. We see only good and every bad thing becomes either good or tolerable for us. Romance makes us magnanimous in thoughts. Romantic feelings make us sit alone and live in our own dreams. We need no one except ourselves to enjoy the thoughts of our romance. We want to be left alone and feel total peace and joy. During romance, every lip smiles, and every eye shines with the light of love.
Romance brings a new God in our life. Our beloved. Some romantics are ready to kiss the place where his/her sweetheart stepped. Romance is to be experienced and not talked about. Romance brings more hormonal changes in body than any medicine and has a definite effect on the heartbeats. They increase at the thought of the beloved. That is romance and to be in romance is to experience the joy of heaven.

There are many emotions and most of us experience all of them except romance. Emotions such as anger, nervousness, sadness and others like these are experienced by all of us. But few experience romance. There is a popular story in India of two romantic lovers. Laila and Majnu. Laila was the princess and Majnu was the son of a washerman. Once, it so happened that Majnu's father asked him to deliver clothes to the palace. There Majnu happened to see Laila and he fell madly in love with her. Since that day, he forgot everything including food, and was only asking for Laila. Some days passed, and this news that Majnu had gone mad in love with Laila reached the king. The king asked his Prime Minister about what could be done to help Majnu in this distress. The Prime Minister suggested that if Majnu wanted to buy anything from any shop, he could buy it for free. The palace would pay to the shopkeeper.

This news brought in many new Majnus. They bought things and behaved like the original. The palace started getting bills in plenty. The king was more worried now and again consulted his Prime Minister. The suggestion was simple - declare that Majnu will be killed after seven days by the palace. This announcement made all the actors run away for their life. Only the original Majnu was left out. He had no care for his life.

This made king think again and he got Majnu married with Laila. Majnu got Laila because he wanted nothing except her. His own life was worthless for him. What mattered was only Laila. This is romance


what do Men like to hear

Women like to be pampered and told that they are beautiful. They like to be told that they take care of their man and they love him. Women enjoy hearing these words. What about men? What do they like to hear?

A man gets stressed at his work place many times. In some situations, he gets frustrated and finds little appreciation. Who will tell him that he is intelligent? That he is good at work and that he is an expert in what he does. If his woman does that, he would love it. These ego boosters are important for men. They like to be reassured sometimes and told that they are good.
A man thinks of doing new projects. He thinks of new ideas and wants to implement them. He innovates and tries to do something unique. Sometimes, he fails and other times he succeeds. What would he love to hear from his woman? 'You are a great innovator. You always think of new ideas and new ways. You are a great brain.' These words will help a man forget any defeat.
You must be aware of some qualities of your man, which are appreciable. He may be a good-looking person, or have a good physique, or good at speaking or writing or good at some other tasks.

Appreciate him about those qualities. Men unfortunately never normally appreciate their men colleagues or friends about their qualities. If his woman gives him recognition and appreciate him for those qualities, he would feel good and love you more.

Your man needs you to help him fight his battles. Your man needs you to get appreciation. Your man needs you to know that he is good. Give him the love and appreciation that he deserves.


Silence Can hurt relationship

Every relationship thrives on communication. The vibrancy of communication makes a relationship lively and strong. We like somebody because we enjoy talking to him/her. Without communication, the relationship will wither.



Sometimes, women go into silence. They are hurt by something their mate did or said. Or they are thinking about some aspect of the relationship. They go into silence and want to find the answers. They feel that they are doing the right thing by going into silence. But the man does not take it that way. He gets confused, hurt and angry. He tries thinking of reasons of his woman going into silence. That frustrates him. He begins hating his mate for troubling him with her silence.



Silence can be good for a woman, but not for a relationship. If you want your relationship to thrive, you can as well think about it loudly. Request your man to not interrupt you while you are speaking and tell everything that is troubling you. That is a much better way of getting the load off your mind and also not hurting the relationship. Silence hurts.

Do Men Love Strong women

Do men like strong female partners? Or are they looking for, and will be happy with a woman who will easily give up? What do men love in a woman? Are men looking for strength or weakness in their woman? This question must have troubled many women and men alike. Let us try and find out the answer to this.

The choice of a man about his woman will be surely for a strong woman. No man wants a weak woman who easily gives up. No man loves a woman who is always looking helpless and asking for help. Men want their women to be strong, who can act smartly. But they don't want their woman to show this strength to them. As far as they are concerned, men want to be told that they are the bosses and that it is because of their ability that everything is moving properly. Every man wants to be praised by his woman and wants the acknowledgment that he is the leader.

Does it not sound like a paradox? No, it is simple to understand. When
a man feels that he commands a woman who is smart and intelligent, he feels good. It is an age old instinct we have inherited from our ancestors.
The choice is open for a strong woman?

Should she make the deficiencies of her man clear to him or act as if he is the boss. Many women hate to act otherwise and are very frank about their views, whereas others want to have a relationship going on and understand this need of their men and satisfy it.


Women Can Save Marriage!

Out of men and women, who can save the marriage better? Who can be the foundation that is so strong that the building does not shake despite an earthquake? Who do you think is fit for this role- women or men?


Common sense tells us that a woman can become a better foundation compared to the man. But common sense deceives us very often. Every marriage has its own problems and characteristics. If the man is more concerned and more intelligent, he will save the marriage and if the woman is more concerned, she will save the marriage.

It will depend upon the ability and desire of both the partners. No one can say that women are better suited to save the marriage. Sometimes they wreck it. As said, the partner who is more intelligent and values the marriage more will save it through all the obstacles.


However, it is concluded that from
very early times that women can easily save the marriages with the power of her love and care.




What if you Love your friend ?

You are friends and you enjoy your friendship. You behave with each other as you do with your other friends. One day you find that you have begun having different feelings for your friend. You like him more than a friend and are developing romantic love. What should you do?


You want to tell your friend about your feelings. But you are not very sure about them yourself. Have you really crossed the relationship of friendship and developed romantic love? You are thinking about that and the more you think the more you get confused. Emotions are like that. They can play havoc with us.


After lot of deliberation, you have decided that the feelings of love are true and figments of your imagination. Should you tell your friend? What if he/she does not reciprocate? What will happen to the friendship?


This is a difficult situation. You do not wish to sacrifice your friendship, but if your friend does not reciprocate that will happen. And there is no way of finding his/her feelings indirectly. You have to do it yourself. What should be done? Please ask. Please tell about your feelings and ask if your feelings are reciprocated. If yes, you are lucky.

If not, let the friendship suffer. You cannot continue loving someone without finding out your friend's feelings. That will be much more painful.

ADVICE FOR MAN

DO YOU ATTRACT WOMAN

For many men, attracting women looks very difficult. For few men, it is very simple. The women get attracted to them automatically. There is some magnetism in them or so it seems. It is their personality, their confidence and their talking style that attracts women of a certain type to such men. Now we are talking sense, because to ask the question to a man - Do you attract women? Sounds foolish to some extent. Every man is different and so is every woman. The attraction can never be universal. Let us discuss this further.

You may be an introvert person - More of a thinker
and an intellectual. You will find it difficult to attract outgoing and extrovert women. It is said that opposites attract, but that attraction will not last long. When your beloved wants to go for hiking, you would like to go for a poetry recital session. So this attraction may occur at times, but will not last. Similarly, if you are a extrovert man, masculine and in love with adventures and risks, you can not attract women of opposite nature. You will attract
women who find lot common between them and you. t is not difficult to attract women, because they are looking for good partners.


The problem arises when we try to attract women who have nothing in common with us. These women ill not are able to understand us and communicate with us. How can you talk of tennis with a woman who loves only reading Shakespeare? The solution lies in first looking for women with common nature and common goals. Once you find some of them, talk to them normally and tell them about your liking for them. Success generally comes with simple approach.


Qualities Which Women Look in Men

When it is that time for the women to get together and discuss their men among themselves, there are repeating patterns in what they talk about, with someone invariably commenting, "Why do they do that?", the term "they" standing for their man in particular and all men in general. So I thought of telling you some dos and don'ts that almost always comes up in a conversation centered on me.
1) Be romantic!

Women love sentimental and pulp stuff. So when Saint Valentine's Day is just round the corner go to florist, pick up the freshest blooms for your girl and have delivered to her with the note saying, "The perfection of the flowers matches the perfection in you." This would be a far better idea than picking up flowers and a card on your way home from office. Now I will share something that needs no further explanation - please do not EVER have your secretary, sister, mother, or girl friend to get a gift for your girl. They are very much off limits.
2)Don't expect too much!

Do not always fuss about the things that you have done. Mankind dinner for women, with a face that expects something (while you are dressed in a pair of nice boxer shorts) is not a romantic subtlety at all. This will just go down the drain.

It will be over even before it starts if you make a woman feel that you have done something extraordinary through an act of love, and that its payback time for her.
3)Laugh! It turns her on.
Laughing is not bad at all. "A sense of humor" tops the chart of favorable qualities that a woman looks for in a man. You would be right to think that what gals think of is a hunk, but it's also true that the quality of humor works really like magic in a man. Laugh at yourself too.
4)Listen and Talk.

Do not restrict your conversations to your work, your needs, what you like and what you do not like. Sit together and share her wishes, hopes and dreams too. Lend your ear. This can be a tough nut to crack for most men, and women know they have lost you when after the first ten minutes of talking your eyes are misty and your mind is elsewhere. At least you can act as if you are attentive and this would be a super hit with women.

5)Revel with a woman's Jewelry.

Women get the right to flaunt and brag about jewelry. So anytime anywhere, just make them a present and they would be more than happy. I hope that these little tips to get a peek into a woman's mind help you. If you want to throw away your boxer shorts, then try one or two of these treats this Saint Valentine's Day, and I can promise you will be a happy man

How to Know if Women is interested in you

Sometimes, it becomes difficult for a man to understand what a woman feels about him. Women use non-verbal signals more than verbal signals in the early phase of any relationship and this makes it difficult to understand their true intent. How to decipher the non-verbal signals of women?

If a woman is interested in you, she will show interest in you. She will not tell you verbally in the beginning that she likes you, but will take interest in whatever you have to say, listen keenly about your work, know more about your past and will always be happy to learn more about you. This is the signal that a woman is interested in you. Only after the relationship develops further, will she tell you about her true feelings. But her happiness in being with you and getting interested in you are early signals that you are winning her heart.
If she is not interested in you or wants to break up, she may not tell you that. She does not feel nice doing that. To feel nice, she will send you non-verbal signals. She may not answer your calls. She will postpone meetings, citing different reasons and she will somehow avoid either talking to you or meeting you.


But if you ask her straight, she may avoid talking about her disinterest. It is for a man to pick up the signals and move on.
Once you know that a woman is not interested in you, ignore her verbal messages. They will only confuse you further. Just stop calling her. If she gets interested again, she will call. Let her chase you after that. But most of the times, once a woman loses interest, it is difficult for her to come back. Wait and you will find out yourself.

Men Know what women Want

What do women want? This question troubles many men. If they like a woman, how to attract her and how to keep that love alive for long. For getting the answer to this, men must know about what women want. The first factor every man must understand clearly is that women are different than men. The way men behave and talk with their men friends will not do with a woman if they wish to win her over. Let us talk about your objective. If you are in love with a woman, you want her to reciprocate that love and remain in love with you forever. You desire that both of you live happily in love with each other forever. For achieving this objective, you must know how to win a woman. Let us examine few qualities that you should develop to win a woman. 1. Care Do you show care for what a woman cares for? Or do you laugh at some of her worries and concerns? That will be a sure formula to make a woman go away from you. Please show care and concern for what a woman cares for. Please be with her in that. Let her feel so confident that she leaves all her cares to you. That will give her real pleasure. 2. Treat Her Delicately When you pick up something precious, you are very careful handling that, isn't it? Same is with women. Talk to them gently. Treat them gently and be there whenever she needs any help. A small gesture such as holding her shopping bags will show that you consider her precious. Show her that she is invaluable for you in all the possible ways. Let her feel good about herself whenever she is with you. 3. Know About Her Find out what she wants in life. Know about her priorities. Learn about her values. If you love her dearly and want to make her your own, you may have to change to her thinking, so that she feels you as her own. This may sound strange, but this small sacrifice will have to be made to make a woman your own..

What kind of Men women wants

What does a woman want in her man? Who will attract her the most? What kind of men become great romantic partners of women? These are questions that need an answer, because once men know that answer, they can attract the woman of their dreams.

Leadership A woman likes a man with leadership ability. No woman wants a follower, except very few. Women like to be led and not lead their man. If you as a man think that allowing and asking your woman to make every decision will make her love you more, revisit this thought. The fact is contrary. Once you begin leading your woman and letting her know that you are a leader by action, she will love you more.

Decision Are you a good decision maker? Or do you keep on postponing your decisions. If you are a quick and clear decision maker, your woman will love you for that. Women may not like men who cannot decide quickly and decisively. Changing decisions frequently will lead you nowhere with women

Power Do you display the power and the resolve to face any situation? Do you show the quality of fighting under every condition? If yes, you will be loved. A woman likes her man to have power.

She wants him to act as a strong and brave person.
Space No woman likes her man to over rule and disregard her every wish. She wants a man for whom her wish is command. She enjoys brave men who at times do what she wants. There is nothing contradictory here, if you think about it carefully.

Try to develop some of these qualities to win over your dream woman. Women are different than men. Give them what they want and they will happily come to you.

What women Search in Men

David set his eyes on Suzan and then they lived happily ever after!' Fairy tales told by a grand mother to her grand daughter who was going on her foremost date. In the present day grand daughters prefer an interesting, suave and articulate guy to start with. The first quality that this grand daughter is on the lookout for: 'Is this guy able to communicate?' The foremost entire sentence that John is bound to say may just finish off the John and Jenny story right away!To be to the point, I have the belief that there are no 'Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus' sort of response to this question. No quantity of man and women scrutiny has been capable of giving us an impartial reply to this query.
Ideas vary from a decent and nice Hello to a challenging and curt intro. What everything else boils down to is the complete fundamentals that a man has to stand by and obtain a max out of the state of affairs at present.
Given below is a little of the important main beliefs which a man has got to stick to in order to begin and continue the talk:
1. Make sure that your body language is correct.
Be upright, confident and talk sensibly. Do not make use of apologetic submissive, voice tones and body language. Many a time first time talks die an untimely death when the man pleads to start one. What we do not remember is that a girl is depicting things the same as we talk. Anywhere you may be and no matter what the state of affairs, you have got to keep in mind that your body language and composure are the main things.
2. Mentally get ready how to come close to the girl.
Unions are predestined from paradise, however in order to make sure that it gets to the gateway of paradise (witticism deliberated) as one is upon the people who are concerned in them. Do not simply stride up to the woman and start jabbering. Get the approach ready and you might be blissful in due course. Nevertheless, I have to add, 'Do not make it a bit too complicated.
3. Do not attempt and obtain a forced reply from her.

A lady pays attention to a guy who is a test for her. Put together this test as attainable if you would like to control a relationship. Keep up the alpha status and she would be stuck on to you. Speak up what ever comes across your mind (as well as the heart) depending upon the state of affairs. Get going with a little hello and go on to an important question. Lastly, keep in mind that it is a chat and hence both will need to contribute to the responsibility. Be ready to take the chat to a commonly suitable subject matter. This means that you need to begin with the first query and then go on.